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Thursday, June 21, 2012

can I get a what what













Outfit Details:
glasses - Ray-Ban
shirt - H&M
pants - Urban Outfitters
platforms - c/o Joie
Collina Strada bag - c/o Emerging Thoughts
bear ring - Sea of Bees c/o Emerging Thoughts 
K ring and "Star Trek" stackable rings - Fancy Sexy Me (got them at Artists & Fleas in Williamsburg)
fitbit - wore it for Nine West Runway Relief during fashion week

Kimberly and I spent a day doing what we both love: eating and shopping at flea markets...and then eating some more. We now have matching "K" friendship rings because we're cheeseballs - and tattoo shops were closed for the day, so the rings were the next best thing (absolutely kidding about that).

On another cheeseball-related note, Kim's blog can now be found at canigetawhatwhat.com. Same blog, new name. Does she win a prize for best name ever? I think she should.





Thursday, May 10, 2012

like petals falling apart








Outfit Details:
Alice Ritter sleeveless trench - Bird (SUPER on sale at the one in my neighborhood)
On a sheer day top - c/o ModCloth (currently sold out:( )
skirt - Urban Outfitters
belt - thrifted
Joie platforms - c/o Joie
Foley + Corinna mid city tote - c/o Foley + Corinna
chain and ribbon bracelet - c/o Dana Mariah
vintage roses bracelet - gift from my mom
Rebecca Minkoff bracelet
flower ring - Forever 21
K ring - hand-me-down
lipstick - Urban Decay Crush

Growing up, I was always a bit of a hustler - but we'll go with "entrepreneur" because it sounds less like I was picking pockets and swindling innocent people out of their money. Whether it was drawing portraits of horses for boarders at the ranch (a veritable bargain at ten cents a piece), selling Airheads and Blow Pops, dog or bird sitting (I did both, regularly), cleaning stalls or making friendship bracelets, I always had sporadic sources of income. I also used to do extra current events projects and sell them to my slacker classmates. Unless, of course, Mr. Pressey is reading this...because if he is, I never ever ever did that.

The second I turned 15, I went and got a job at the mall. To this day, that was the only time I worked directly for a company and had a normal (albeit very tiny) paycheck. I traded the friendship bracelets and horse portraits for sewing, the homework for actual paid writing jobs, and retired from bird sitting as soon as one of the weaker baby birds passed away and wrecked my teenage world.

My point? There really is none, but upon seeing this young girl turn her hobby into an Etsy venture, I started thinking about my own youthful enterprises and became nostalgic. I wonder what younger-me would think about present-me making clothing (p.s. the new site and merch will be up at the end of the month!) and maintaining a blog. I never even thought I would wear dresses, let alone make them. Ugh, what a girl.

Truly, I think the thing I would be most surprised about is that the whole, "I want to be Paula Abdul" thing didn't work out...and that I'm not married to Leonardo DiCaprio. I thought at least one of those was a sure thing.


Saturday, April 7, 2012

What makes love true







Outfit Details:
Joie silk blouse - c/o Joie
lace skirt - c/o Spotted Moth
belt - thrifted
shoes - Beacon's Closet
vintage bag - Hourglass Consignment
twist key necklace - c/o Tiffany & Co., in celebration of their microsite, What Makes Love True

Bobby is wearing: Urban Outfitters hat and Benjamin shirt by Fischer

There is no authority on love. Love is such an intimate notion and to be in love is beyond description. Or, at least, it is for me. I've been in love a handful of times - truly - and I'll never discredit those that didn't last. Once you're in love, it's difficult to admit to yourself that you can ever fall out of it. It's right and then...it's just wrong. From the four year relationship that ran its course to the whirlwind romance that crashed and burned, I've become the person I am today - and I've learned when to love and when to let go. That is never lost on me.

When Tiffany & Co. sent me this beautiful necklace with the thought provoking question, "What makes love true?" I immediately thought, "Love is whatever you make of it." That might sound like a cop out, and maybe it is. But each time I fell in love, it felt completely different. That doesn't make it any less real. What makes love true and long-lasting is all in how you maintain it, and that requires balance and resilience. And if you're dating me, patience - lots of patience.

I'm a fiery person. I can be tempestuous and lose my temper rather quickly, and I'm extremely stubborn. I need someone who balances me out and keeps me grounded, yet lets me express myself. He needs to accept that I'm going to get riled up every now and then, but not let me get out of control. And maybe bring me back down to earth with a soothing voice and some breathing exercises, if necessary (I'm only kind of joking). More than anything, I need someone who will stick around when things get tough, and I need to want to stick around, too...and be the voice of reason when he needs it.
 
People don't often tell you how much maintenance a relationship requires, but know this: there will be rough patches. You need to know when to pick yourselves up and dust each other off and when to let go - and grudges are out of the question. Bobby and I have had our rough patches in the past, but after eight years of friendship and three years of living together, we know how to handle what comes our way. Despite all of my faults, he never gave up on me. And just so you know (because I'm painting myself to be a crazy person with a perfect counterpart), he has his [very minor] faults, too. The goshdarn boy can't seem to go one day without accidentally throwing away something really important.


Oh, and one other thing that makes love true? Mutual adoration for my animals. Obviously!

To see more thoughts on what makes love true from fellow bloggers, check out the slideshow on stylelist.

Friday, March 30, 2012

The scent of roses and raspberry leaves







Outfit Details:
on a sheer day top - c/o ModCloth
shorts and wedges - c/o Joie
Mid-City Tote in Poppy - c/o Foley + Corinna
lip color - Laura Mercier lip stain in Hibiscus
glasses - Ray-Ban

Big thanks to my little sister, Tessa Marie (or Cheech, Monchichi, Chichi, Goose, Little One - I have so many nicknames for her) for taking these photos, as we were on our way back from getting our nails done. I rarely ever get my nails done, and I've literally had two or three pedicures in my life, which drives my mom nuts. I'm also extremely impatient and put my shoes on too soon, so I managed to ruin my toes before I even stepped out of the salon. Tessa must take after me, because the day she gets her nails done, she starts chipping it off. Like sister, like sister!



Friday, March 16, 2012

a cartographer of the tangles in your hair









Outfit Details:
boater hat - H&M (you can find some great ones on Etsy)
glasses - Ray-Ban
90s babydoll dress - thrifted and reconstructed (shortened hem and sleeves, added crochet trim)
bag - R&Em
bracelets - Rebecca Minkoff (from a gift bag), vintage (similar one here)
Joie platforms - c/o Joie
lipstick - Revlon Pink In The Afternoon


This was really an outfit for a sunnier day, but my track record shows that I've never been one for practicality - or checking the weather forecast. It was rather overcast; the hat was not for sun-shade but purely to hide the tangled, windblown mess. Up or down, I can't seem to get away from messy hair. To be fair, it is for lack of trying.



p.s. Some of you might have read my post on body image - and many of you had great additions to the ongoing conversation. Well,  Gala Darling wrote her own thoughts on the matter here and then opened up the conversation to fellow bloggers and readers with this wonderfully engaging post (part one - she will be posting more).

Thursday, March 15, 2012

love in her eyes and flowers in her hair







Outfit Details:
yellow slip (overlay) - Free People
yellow knit slip dress (under) - H&M
lace cardigan - Threadsence
Keiko necklace - c/o mynamenecklace.com
heart lock bracelet - c/o Tiffany & Co. (from their What Makes Love True evening)
Joie Windy platforms - c/o Joie
flower crown - made by the Seychelles girls
makeup: full tutorial here

Admittedly, I didn't even leave the house on this day (Monday). I stayed home, sneezed a lot, did Makeup Monday and made one garment. One. It was an extremely unproductive day. I'd use the excuse that I'm sick but I'm always sick, so you'd think I would get used to it. Despite my lack of productivity and abundance of the sick, I maintained a pleasant disposition. There's something about shapeless loungewear, a flower crown, bright eyes and a beautiful puppy that is magic. When you put them all together, it's impossible to be down.